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Self-Control: A Mother’s Strategy to Love Like Christ
When we’d rather indulge ourselves and our sin, self-control is God’s grace working in us to love and serve like Christ.
Hope When The Heaviness Will Not Lift
Postpartum depression can feel like a crushing darkness with no end in sight. Here’s hope and encouragement from a mom on the other side.
Three Verses to Build a Mother’s Faith
In the chaos of our days, we may often feel the need for wisdom and encouragement from God’s word but not have the time to go and find it. What if the word was already there in our minds and hearts, ready for the Spirit to use at just the right moment?
The Wild and Lavish Grace Available to Us Every Day: A Book Review of Habits of Grace (For Moms)
We spend our days nourishing others, often wondering how we can find nourishment for ourselves. Here’s a book that shows us how cultivating “habits of grace” can help us find nourishment for our souls in knowing and enjoying Jesus.
The Weapon of Faith in the Hard Days of Motherhood
How the story of David and Goliath gives moms hope and faith on our most discouraging days.
How One Working Mom Prioritizes Time in the Word: An Interview
Danielle Herbert works as a project manager for a business-consulting firm that manages government contracts in the D.C. area. In this written interview, Danielle shares how she prioritizes time in the Word as a working mom.
When You Don’t Measure Up
When we realize we’re not enough and that we can’t live out our “right” way of doing motherhood, there is good news that frees us from shame.
Our Greatest Ally: God’s Grace for Marital Intimacy
As a mom of two under two, I’m pretty much always tired, which means I pretty much always have a 'good' reason to not invest in my marriage. In fact, if there was ever a time where I felt like I had every right to reject my husband’s advances, it’s now.
But feelings do not determine truth, do they?
The reality is that God designed marriage to mirror his relationship with his church. And just like we can’t take a break from God without our spiritual health declining, we can’t take a break from our spouse without it impacting the health of our marriage.
Everything is from him, to him, and through him—even marital intimacy. So, the path to marital closeness is through the One who created it in the first place. Which makes sense, because another word for intimacy is closeness.
Sex becomes more beautiful with this in mind, offering a glimpse of the glorious oneness between Christ and his bride, a unity that comes from preferring the good of another over yourself.
When I don’t feel up to pursuing intimacy with my husband, I look to the One who came not to be served but to serve and give his life for many. When everything in me is exhausted, I turn to my humble, self-sacrificing King in prayer, knowing that his wisdom in marriage is trustworthy.
God promises to work in us both for his own good pleasure, which means he is my greatest ally in cultivating rich intimacy in my marriage.
The truth is we’re both exhausted. We look forward to days when it won’t take a week to get through a movie, when giving up sleep to be with each other doesn’t feel like such a hard sacrifice, but we’re also thankful for the way this season challenges, stretches, and grows our love for one another.
Our challenge is to steal moments to express that love in the marriage bed."
RM note: Sexual intimacy in marriage is a gift from God, but it's also a very sensitive topic. While many women relate to normal feelings of tiredness that make intimacy challenging, there are many struggling with deeper issues of sexual brokenness. If this post triggers deeper concerns, consider talking to an older couple, a biblical counselor, or a doctor for help.
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